The woman in your life……

minu (my love:life:wife) forwarded this beautiful article to me: 

T he woman in your life…very well expressed… 

Tomorrow you may get a working woman,but you should marry her with these facts as well.

Here is a girl, who is as much educated as you are;
Who is earning almost as much as you do;

One, who has dreams and aspirations just as
you have because she is as human as you are;

One, who has never entered the kitchen in her life just like you or your
Sister haven’t, as she was busy in studies and competing in a system
that gives no special concession to girls for their culinary achievements

One, who has lived and loved her parents & brothers & sisters, almost as much as you do for 20-25 years of her life;

One, who has bravely agreed to leave behind all that, her home, people who love her, to adopt your home, your family, your ways and even your family ,name

One, who is somehow expected to be a master-chef from day #1, while you sleep oblivious to her predicament in her new circumstances, environment and that kitchen

One, who is expected to make the tea, first thing in the morning and cook food at the end of the day, even if she is as tired as you are, maybe more, and yet never ever expected to complain; to be a servant, a cook, a mother, a wife, even if she doesn’t want to; and is learning just like you are as to what you want from her; and is clumsy and sloppy at times and knows that you won’t like it if she is too demanding, or if she learns faster than you;

One, who has her own set of friends, and that includes boys and even men at her workplace too, those, who she knows from school days and yet is willing to put all that on the back-burners to avoid your irrational jealousy, unnecessary competition and your inherent insecurities;

Yes, she can drink and dance just as well as you can, but won’t, simply
Because you won’t like it, even though you say otherwise

One, who can be late from work once in a while when deadlines, just like yours, are to be met;

One, who is doing her level best and wants to make this most important, relationship in her entire life a grand success, if you just help her some and trust her;

One, who just wants one thing from you, as you are the only one she knows in your entire house – your unstinted support, your sensitivities and most importantly – your understanding, or love, if you may call it.

But not many guys understand this……

Please appreciate “HER”

I hope you will do….






Respect Her……..

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About Praveen Patil

A Physics Teacher....@ G S S College, Belgaum , INDIA................................................................................................................. I love to learn and to help others to learn as well. It gives me an immense amount of joy to see others succeed, and I want to help students along in this process of learning. The encouragement and help of my professors has greatly influenced me in pursuing a career in teaching. I want to have this same supportive influence on future generations.
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1 Response to The woman in your life……

  1. Shruti says:

    Wonderful post sir… It’s very awakening for the contemporary Indian Society, which expects a lot from a girl married newly into an alien family and who is willing to forego everything for her new family…

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